THIS IS IT...
This is it
To tell you the truth,i am not an avid fan of movies or series. I seldom watch movies. But once in a while i put my ears down to know the good stuff. And when i finally hear about one,i stalk the internet for it. If it ain't free but showing at the cinemas,i go see it. If it is a series, i make sure i binge watch it.
This year, i have watched good movies thanks to the internet 👊(in a way she has my back but Jesus is #1❤). I finished an old series. But the best for me this year-it actually came out last year 😑😑, now you will believe me when i say 'seldom'😃- and maybe always is THIS IS IT. I fell madly in love from the first second of the first episode of the first season. I binge watched half of a season in a night and went to work looking wasted due to insufficient sleep😴😴. Well it was worth it, could not stand such a suspense 😏...lol. My imaginations were going berserk 😂😂.
I love love love everything. Great attention was given to the tiniest of details. Kudos to Dede and Tee. Started wishing they get married in life 😂😂😂. Don't blame me though, the chemistry was so real to just be an act 😏. Don't mind having another "banky and susu" 😁😁😁. Would not have such great characters in a great series without a kick ass director. Please a round of applause for Lowladee. These series would have been nothing without the THISISIT_SERIES TEAM. You are the best team. I heart you 💜. I look forward to great series and movies from the team 😁😁😁.
Now to the real deal called MARRIAGE. I saw a different light of marriage. The beauty of and in marriage,the spontaneity in marriage. The series is based on the first year of marriage which many say is the most difficult. Lol,why are you staring at me? I don't know so i can't concur 😑😑.
Facts Of Marriage 'This is it' Portrayed.
1). Marriage is work but it takes a lot to make it easy work. It is an easy work but you just work hard at it.
2). Marriage doesn't stop fun but takes fun to the next level. Also, creativity determines your fun. You need to play too much in marriage so you don't break down working so hard at an easy job 😑😒.
3). For marriage to be easy work,it takes two forgiving and forgetful heart who have made a commitment to love with Christ's kind of love. Please don't love in a "self-ish" way. Let the "selfie" be for the cameras alone. 👊
4). You need genuine friends either single or married. Aside family,a support group is essential in marriage and this is where genuine good friends come in. GENUINE and GOOD are the keywords. The words of a"single" friend can help your marriage believe or not. In marriage,friendships integrate-"your friends" becomes "our friends".
5). Be careful with your friends and with your friendships. A word they say is enough for the wise. Trust your intuitions always. Never disregard them.
4). You don't marry your spouse alone,you marry the family too along with all their drama and cuteness and craziness. Trust me,some are crazy crazy...😂😂😂.
5). Consideration and compromise are important ingredients to improve marriage aroma and taste. Some times you will have to let go of the "big things " for the "little things" cause in the little things lie the big things. Yep!!!🙌🙌6). It is okay if you and your spouse don't agree on certain things and have different opinions on certain issues. Don't get upset about it or try to drive your point home or make it a big deal. Remember,you are still different people even if married. Find a way to work with the differences and through the differences 👌.
7). There are easy ways to resolve arguments. Yes,very easy ways.
8). You have to talk about everything💬💬💬 . Literally everything. Good communication is essential in marriage. Biko,don't do your own thing without informing Madam or Oga👀
9). About the in-laws and out-laws 😂😂😂-you really have to love them with every inch of your purkinje fibers. Some are easy to love,some are hard to love. But which ever you serve yourself,LOVE them real good. It will be easy to love them if you take and see them as your family,not just your spouse's family but yours as well.💜💜 keeps us together like oshey!!! 😀
10). Never nurse fears or hurts. And never project them on your spouse. Fear is crippling and acting out hurts can lead to out-of-hand situations.😐
11). You are still you after marriage. Never forget that. If there is anything you should be doing-you should be bettering yourself all the time,everyday. You shouldn't fit into anyone's standards except yours👍. And never make anyone make you fit into their standards. Always wear yourself in all your splendor👸.
12). Lastly,there is no marriage outside Christ. Yep!!! Don't be deceived,Christ makes everything beautiful and sweet.
N.B: 'This is it' portrayed more. These 12 points are the lessons i learned.
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